In Islam, it is permissible to have a love marriage because in Shari’ah, both men and women are given the right to like and dislike a relationship. It is possible for a couple to find comfort in each other and to have love and compassion between them only when the husband and wife like each other.
Parents should pay special attention to the likes and dislikes of their children when arranging a relationship because in our society most parents take care of likes and dislikes hundreds of times while buying cows, buffaloes, goats, houses, cars, clothes and other items. But when marrying children, they impose their own will on those who have to spend their whole lives together. Therefore, it is better to choose marriage so that the husband and wife can live their life in a better way.
Sometimes a boy or a girl can get married without the knowledge of their parents, although it would be possible for them to get married in a dignified manner if they consulted and convinced their parents. But marrying without informing them in this way not only violates Islamic traditions and respect for parents, but will also lead to many problems in the future. But if the parents ignore the likes and dislikes of the adult children, then they have the right to give preference to their own choice.
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It is permissible to see a woman with whom one intends to marry before marriage The Holy Prophet (saw) said: When a woman gives you a marriage message, look at it if you can.
When Hazrat Mugheerah bin Shu’bah (RA) intended to marry a woman, the Holy Prophet (SAW) said: Go and see it because Allah may create love in your hearts with it.
It is permissible to have a court marriage. During court marriage, marriage is consensual in the presence of witnesses, but this practice is against our social values and manners. Therefore, the best way is to involve the parents in the marriage.
Parents can also be helpful in settling matters if the situation worsens later, especially for girls, it is important not to get married without involving their parents as the girls are badly affected due to the breakdown in the affairs.
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Adult girls and boys have the right to marry of their choice. We have double standards in this regard. In some areas, parental self-indulgence comes to the fore and is also called honor. This selfishness and pride strangles the legitimate rights of children, Most of the victims of this ‘honor’ are the daughters because the son is still given the choice of his likes and dislikes.
On the other hand, in response to this illegitimate ban and stubbornness, some children rebel. They go to court and establish a marital relationship. Then sometimes the girl’s family seeks satisfaction in killing her.
The fact is that in the case of marriage, parents do not have the right to put pressure on their daughter or son against their will. If they put pressure on them and they refuse, it will not be disobedience to them, but if the parents force their daughter or son to marry against their consent, then it will be against the Shariah.
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The Shari’ah, which has given the option of marriage of choice, has also given the option of rejecting unwelcome marriages. Therefore, Allah and His Messenger have given authority to that girl or child to annul this marriage
The right to marry ‘according to choice’ is given to the boy and the girl and not to the parents and other relatives. In the same way, if a boy or a girl gets married against their will, the right to annul it is also prescribed by the Shari’ah.
A girl came to the service of the Holy Prophet and said: O Messenger of Allah! My father has married me to his nephew in order to get rid of his poverty through me (get nephew’s financial support and). The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) left the matter to him (whether to maintain the marriage or to separate from it if he wished). She said: I maintain my father’s marriage but I did it so that the women would know that in case of marriage of children the parents do not have a right (in case of coercion against the will of the children).
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One of the major causes of forced marriages is cousins marriages with close relatives. Sometimes parents want their son / daughter to marry their niece / nephew / niece / nephew / niece so that the wealth of the house stays in the house. And in case of staying abroad, his visa etc. should also be required. This kindness, sympathy and kinship is a good idea in its own right, but even in this case, some parents put pressure on their children, as a result of which such marriages often fail in Western countries. And then the social effects can be very negative, especially if the separation takes place after the birth of the child.
Islam is a religion in which there is no concept of forced marriage because marriage is a woman’s right, parents have no right to force it. So parents should also understand this command of Shariah well If they give such an order to their children which they have no right under Shariah but on the contrary that right is given to their children by Shariah then its non-fulfillment will not be considered as disobedience of parents.
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In the same way, one of the parents or both of them should give an order to his married son which violates the Shariah rights of his wife, or it is cruel and unjust to him. If they do not carry out such an order, then it will not be considered as their disobedience according to Shariah.
Children should not be rude to their parents in this case. Do not do so and keep on following the Shari’ah rule of justice and good behavior with your wife and do not abuse her at all. If this balance is not possible in living together, then the husband should provide separate accommodation to the wife, this is her right.